How to Create Your Reality in 4 Steps

“What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” -Napoleon Hill

You have the power to create your own reality through the power of your thoughts, beliefs, and feelings. Your thoughts, beliefs, and feelings are energy. Everything is energy. The energy that you emit is the energy that you attract. By learning to correctly manage your inner energy, you will begin to experience your ability to create more positive things in your life. You will begin to spiritually awaken the part of you that is connected to everyone and everything. You will understand that the language of the Universe is energy and vibration, and it is only by changing your internal energy that you are able to change your external experiences.

“Be the change you wish to see in the world”. – Mahatma Gandhi

It is your birthright to be a conscious creator of your life because it is who you are and why you are here. In order to create anything you desire, the process is always the same. The only difference is the length of time it may take to manifest what you desire. It is important to understand that conscious creation is a process, and there are specific steps required in order to create in the most effective way.

In my video, I discuss the 4 step process to create your reality. At the end of the video, I share a bonus strategy you can use to experience instant manifestation (or your ability to create something you desire in your life within a relatively short time period). Please click below to watch.

The Creation Process in 4 Steps


  1. Create a clear conscious thought, desire, or intention. In this step you need to know what it is that you want. Be clear on what it is you desire. Take a mental note or write it down. Next, you need to ask yourself – Do you really believe it is possible for you? Without the belief, you cannot move past step 1. If you truly desire something, and you do not yet have an aligned belief, then work on creating a new belief. This is your inner work. Know that any belief can be changed over time. In my book Your Hidden Light, I share tips and strategies on how to build a new belief. There are also many other resources available to
    help you – comment on this post if you want to learn more.
  2. Express gratitude as if you have already received it. Feel what it feels like to have what it is you desire. Visualize it in your mind. The goal here is to authentically feel good and thank the Universe as if it is already done. The feeling of gratitude raises your energy and vibration to align your feelings with your desire and belief.
  3. Detach from your desire. This is the step where you get out of the way and let the Universe guide and support you. Do not hold onto your desire with a feeling of desperation or with a sense of wanting or longing. Any feeling of unease, stress, worry, or fear is a feeling of attachment. You need to let go and trust.

    “Non-resistance is the key to the greatest power in the universe.” – Echkart Tolle

  4. Align your actions with your desire. Once you have aligned your thought, belief, and feelings internally with a sense of knowing and trust, you are ready to act. Follow your intuition, be persistent, and only take action that is aligned with what you desire. What you are desiring to create in your life will dictate your level of action. If you are acting from a place of alignment, any work you do will not feel like work because you will be in the flow of life.

Practice creating small things in your life by using these four steps and then build up to bigger things. Begin to awaken your power to create your reality. For more information, please visit

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